Hidden Costs

So weddings are expensive. Not necessarily the hosting, although I'm sure that's the case too. But attending them. Train tickets, hotel costs, etc, etc. Fortunately I'm not female, or I'd have to buy a new dress for each wedding I attended too. I do have a new suit, admittedly, but that was a present to me as much as anything else!

The thing about Mark's wedding is that it's making me forget it's my birthday coming up - sandwiched as my birthday is in the weekend between Mark's stag do and Mark's wedding. I need to start making a list of things I'd like. Or think of anything, really, as I usually do!

Any suggestions?